A-Z of Blogging: R is for Recurrence #AtoZChallenge
26 posts. 26 days. 26 letters of the alphabet, one blog post beginning with each letter.
The shock of that day you hear the words, “you have cancer” never leaves you and your sense of certainty in life and in your body can be hard to recapture after a diagnosis of cancer.
One of the most common fears we have is the fear of their cancer returning. This fear can be most acute in the months following treatment as we wrestle with thoughts of rogue cancer cells hiding inside of us, just looking for the chance to plant themselves in some organ. This may in part be due to the fact that we are not told our cancer is cured, but rather it is in remission – the very word implies only a temporary cessation of activities.
What is a cancer recurrence?
Breast cancer can recur at any time, but most recurrences occur in the first three to five years after initial treatment. If cancer returns, we call it a recurrence of the primary cancer. There are three types of cancer recurrence:
1. Local recurrence – the cancer reappears in the same place (or close by) as it was originally found, but hasn’t spread to the lymph nodes or other parts of the body.
2. Regional recurrence – the cancer recurs in the lymph nodes and tissue surrounding the original cancer.
3. Distant recurrence – when the cancer cells break away from the original tumour and spreads (metastizes) to areas farther away from the original cancer site. around the body .
Does fear of recurrence ever go away?
Fear of recurrence is a normal experience after a life-changing event like cancer and it is most acute in the immediate aftermath of treatment ending. Normally it fades as time passes and only rears its head again at times such as your annual medical check-up, the anniversary of your diagnosis or when someone you know is diagnosed with breast cancer or a cancer recurrence.
What if the fear doesn’t go away?
For some people, the voice of fear cannot be quietened and if you find it starts to impact your life in ways that are not healthy for you, then I would recommend getting in touch with a mental health professional who can help you work through it. Support groups can also be a safe place to discuss and explore fear of recurrence. Sometimes talking about the fear can help decrease it.
How to know when an ache or pain is something to get checked out?
This is a common question and as a rule of thumb, I recommend the “two-week rule.” If you have a symptom that is persistent and consistent over a period of two weeks (meaning the symptoms remain the same in intensity), then make an appointment for a visit to your oncologist or nurse specialist who will decide what tests need to be done. Obviously, if you have a pain which increases in intensity, the two-week rule does not apply and you should make an appointment straight away to get it checked out.
Practical advice to lower your anxiety
This really is a case of finding what works best for you. The following list may be a good starting point for you to explore options.
1. Exercise. Exercise has also been shown to reduce the risk of a cancer occurrence so it makes sense to get moving. Aim for an activity that gets your heart rate up for 30 to 45 minutes.
2. Deep breathing. Did you know that 15 minutes a day of daily deep breathing can have a powerful effect on your anxiety and overall feeling of calm and wellness? When we are stressed we tend to breathe more shallowly. Shallow breathing, which doesn’t allow enough oxygen to enter our bodies, can make us even more anxious. Deep abdominal breathing slows the heart down and lowers blood pressure. The advantage of focussing on the breath is that it is always there with us. We can turn to it anytime we are feeling anxious.
3. Complementary therapies such as reiki, massage and acupuncture can also help enormously with decreasing anxiety.
4. Spirituality. Spirituality is not just about prayer and religion, though for some this is a huge source of comfort. Any ritual that helps you get in touch with a higher source of strength, well being and purpose for your life will help you lower your anxiety.
5. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
The aim of CBT is to help you to change how you think (‘Cognitive’) and what you do (‘Behaviour’) in order to help you to feel better. It is based on the principle that certain ways of thinking can trigger, or fuel, certain health problems such as anxiety. A CBT therapist helps you to identify any unhelpful thought patterns you may have and how to change your ways of thinking to avoid these thoughts.
6. Anti-anxiety medicines. If you tried other healthy ways of managing your anxiety, but are still feeling overwhelmingly anxious, then talk to your doctor about anti-anxiety medication. We know that people diagnosed with cancer are 15 to 25 percent more likely to experience depression and anxiety, and it is not uncommon for someone to go on an anti-anxiety medicine for a short or long period of time while trying to learn other coping skills.
7. Don’t get hung up on the statistics While cancer survival rates are useful in giving you a general idea of your prognosis they can’t tell you about your situation specifically. Some people choose to know everything about their type of cancer, including statistical survival rates, but others find that the statistics are just numbers which may bewilder and frighten them. Numbers are tools, not rules, so don’t get too hung up on them.
Now over to you? What ways have you found best for dealing with your fear of recurrence?
I’ve had 6 occurrences of breast cancer in the past 11 years – 3 primaries and 3 secondaries. In the beginning, I had no knowlege about how breast cancer spreads, or what the symptoms might be – which is why I put up with pain in my spine for nearly 5 months and didn’t immediately connect my unsteadiness with brain metastases. Living with secondaries, I know there is a possibility of further recurrences – but, as you know, Marie, I simply don’t worry about things. My approach is: if it happens, it happens – and in the meantime, I’ll enjoy Life as best I can. 🙂