Friday Round-Up
I couldn’t let this last Friday of the year pass by without sharing what the writers in the BC blogosphere have been reflecting and commenting on this week.
In Closing Out Another Year, Nancy sees this week between Christmas and New Year as the perfect time to unwind, reflect and just be, and has decided that she is “ready to send 2011 on its way and more than eager to welcome in a New Year.”
Another blogger in reflective mode is Catherine, who reckons “this is a perfect time to reflect upon our Ifs . . . 2012, a whole new year with adventure and growth just waiting to happen.”
Guest editor Ronnie has some reflections on the best things of 2011 on the Being Sarah blog.
Debbie is also reflecting on the five years since she was diagnosed with breast cancer. I know how far Debbie has come and how ready she is to move on. I am also reflecting on what a good friend she has been to me in the past few years I have come to know her.
In Bruised, Battered and Thankful, Stacey has been writing about a very frightening car crash which her family experienced this past week. Thankfully, they all emerged unscathed, but understandably Stacey’s end-of-year reflections have been on how suddenly our lives can change.
A truly beautiful post from Jan reflecting on her Christmas – I felt humbled and challenged reading it. It wasn’t the Christmas she envisaged she would be having a year ago – yes, life really does bring unexpected changes and we aren’t always ready – but Jan, with her customary grace and faith, embraced those changes and her account of how she did is a reminder to me of how an attitude of gratitude really does make all the difference.
Lauren reposted a post she wrote the first Christmas after she had cancer; it is a beautiful reminder to us all of what is important and what is not.
Chemobabe has done a round-up of the top cancer stories over the past year – well worth a read.
Florence has challenged herself to try to find one hundred perks of having cancer..so far she is almost half-way there at #47.
Finally, I missed out on Beth’s terrific post The Price of Silence earlier in the month, but reading it today, it really resonated with me, as I reflected on the wisdom of sharing the news of my latest miscarriage with readers. Sometimes I think I share too much that is personal and I know that isn’t for everyone, but reading Beth’s post and the quote she shares from Audre Lorde’s The Cancer Journals made me glad that I did. (See also an excellent post by Heidi Cohen written at the time of Trey Pennington’s death on this subject of transparency in the age of social media). I also feel immense gratitude for all of you who share your own struggles so honestly and my wish for the coming year is that we continue to journey with each other in a supportive and compassionate online space.
And so in this final weekly round-up of 2011, I leave you with the words of Audre Lorde, which I will continue to take forward with me into a new year of blogging.
I have come to believe over and over again that what is most important to me must be spoken, made verbal and shared, even at the risk of having it bruised or misunderstood…the transformation of silence into language and action is an act of self-revelation… [M]y daughter…said ‘….you’re never really a whole person if you remain silent.
My wish for you all in the BC blogosphere is that this new year does not find you silent, but that you continue to rant, to rave, to advocate, to tell, in your own inimitable feisty ways!
May the New Year bring you all health and happiness in abundance.
Marie xxx
Audre’s word are priceless. Here’s to healthy and happy 2012 for everyone!
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I so look forward to reading you Friday round up, and I feel honoured that my blog is mentioned this week (Florence “Perks of Cancer”). Thank you!
I just added a new perk: Cancer Shook Up My New Year’s Resolutions.
I am sure your readers will agree that having cancer puts a whole new spin on making new year’s resolutions. This is one year I am DETERMINED to keep mine (with #1 on the list being: Stay Alive:)
Cancer Warrior (Florence)
http://www.perksofcancer.com
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Delighted to feature you Florence and looking forward to featuring you lots more in the coming year.
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Thanks Marie, you are so sweet. I just know 2012 will be the year of Marie 🙂
Lauren
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Aw Lauren, thanks for your wonderful support this past year x
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I love the Round-Up! Thanks, Marie, for showcasing the immense talent in our BC blogosphere! May 2012 be the best year yet for all of us, ans especially for you, Marie. xo
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Nancy, I really must thank you for your wonderful support this past year – the e-mails, the guest posts, the comments – they all mean so much to me x
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Thanks for the mention Marie, and I love the Audre Lorde quote too. ‘Your silence will not protect you’ is another of Audre’s quotes that I often say to myself when I feel afraid about speaking out.
All best to you for 2012, Sarah
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It’s wonderful Sarah and one I am taking to my blogging heart.
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Thanks for the mention Marie, and for the Audre Lorde quote.
Have a good new year,
Ronnie
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Thanks for a great post Ronnie!
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I love that quote and actually I just finished reading Audre Lorde’s book, so it’s especially meaningful to me right now. Like you, I often struggle about sharing the personal stuff too, but well, this quote helps with that doesn’t it? I’m very grateful for all, including you, who do choose to share. Sharing the ups and downs is what brings us back to blogs day in and day out. Sharing is what ultimately binds us together.
Thank you for including Nancy’s Point in your round-up. I really appreciate it. I hope the New Year brings you good things, Marie.
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You know I haven’t read Audre Lorde’s book yet, but it keeps popping up on the BC blogosphere so I must get myself a copy to read. Thanks for your good wishes Nancy and for all your support over the past year.
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I love your wish for us to continue ranting, raving and speaking our minds. It’s the best way to be, I think. Happy New Year! I hope 2012 is very good to you.
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Thanks Catherine and continued good health and success to you in the coming year too xxx
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Thank you for including me in your round-up Marie. What a thoughtful post as we come to the end of another year. A great reminder that we all need to keep making our own noise, maybe it will be joyful or mournful or somewhere in between, but we have to keep making it. Together we make a symphony of experiences that can lift us up and carry us through. You are in my thoughts and prayers as always.
Love, Deb
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I love that image of a symphony Deb x
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Hi Marie,
I am always so glad to see a round up! Exceptional choices!!! I don’t know how to thank you enough for being the “manager of the breast cancer blogs” …… I have found many friends thanks to your efforts and I think it’s appropriate for me to THANK YOU. I know this year will go down as “the year you wished never happened.” You are truly in my thoughts.
Look forward to 2012 with hope and promise for things that are new and better than what we’ve had for the prior 40 yrs.
Happy new year, my sweet friend.
I send love,
AnneMarie
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this just makes my day Anne Marie – thank you for your generous and kind comments x
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A timely post, and you are generous to do a round-up for us to close out this year. New Year’s has never really been one of my favorite holidays, but this year, I think it’s so poignantly appropriate for you and so many of us to reflect on the past year and look forward to the next.
Hope that the new year brings you healing, joy, peace and perspective, dear Marie.
xoxo
Kathi
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I so appreciate your comment Kathi and all the support you have given me in this past difficult year. Here’s to brighter times ahead for all of us x
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Marie,
Thank you for the kudos for my posting! That was a nice end-of-year surprise. I’m thankful for your sharing your truths and all you do for the blogging community. I hope your 2012 is filled with much love and warmth.
xoxo
Beth
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To quote T.S. Eliott in Little Gidding,
“For last year’s words belong to last year’s language
And next year’s words await another voice…
…To make an end is to make a beginning.”
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That is so wonderful – thank you for sharing Somnath
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Peace in this passage into a new year, Marie.
xoxo
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And to you too my dear Renn x
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Pardon my misspelling of Eliot’s name.
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Marie, what a lovely round-up to capture the last blog posts of 2011 reflecting on our final experiences of the year! What a collage of reflections. What a joy to read each one. Every blogger you mention has an important, resonating message for all of us as we face a new year. We don’t know what 2012 will bring us, but we do know some poignant posts are bound to germinate from it.
Thanks for including my blog post in your list. This year has been devastating for me, more so than any year I was diagnosed with cancer. Yet I’m finding little seedlings of hope sprouting up from the ground of destruction. They are spindly and weak, but they are reaching skyward with narrow leaf-wings, getting stronger day by day.
May your New Year be filled with blessings of every kind possible, and may God be with ye.
XOXO,
Jan
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Marie, your Friday Round up has become an institution! There are women all around the world checking on Fridays, to meet new blogesses, to see what is current and to keep up with current topics.
Thank you, and I wish you a kind 2012. Having you in my life makes it such a great deal sunnier.
Philippa
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Phillipa, what a lovely comment – you really brightened my day – thank you x
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