Depression Awareness Week
As cancer survivors, many of us have struggled with that unexpected feeling of depression and loneliness that surprises us after treatment is finished. I say unexpected and surprises, because for many of us we are quite often shocked and confused at the intensity of the feelings of depresssion that hit us. Surely we should be ecstatic – after all we have “beaten” cancer, we have been given a second chance. So why then do we feel so sad?
The fact is that cancer survivors are more likely than their healthy peers to suffer serious psychological distress such as anxiety and depression, even a decade after treatment ends. The physical and emotional fallout of cancer treatment can contribute to feelings of anxiety and depression. This is a theme I return to time and again in this blog, but I feel it is important that we speak out about it, and it doesn’t become, like depression often does, a hidden grief in our lives. That is why I am so pleased when figures in the public eye speak out about their experiences with depression. It helps to remove some of the stigma and opens up wider discussions.
In Ireland, Aware’s Depression Awareness Week (DAWN) takes place this week and aims to highlight the issue of depression, reduce stigma and create greater public awareness about the support, information and education services offered by the organisation. Speaking at the launch, Mr David Carton, Chairman of Aware said: “Depression is something that visits every family in this country, but we know that many people never come forward for help and struggle alone with what is a treatable condition. At the start of a new decade and after 25 years of work, Aware is saying to everyone, young and old, ‘Don’t deal with this on your own, there are options available to you through aware.ie or our loCall helpline and you can recover from depression’.”
Founded in Dublin in 1985, the services provided by Aware are needed now more than ever: The World Health Organisation suggests that in just ten years time depression will be the second most disabling condition in the world after heart disease. More than 400,000 people in Ireland experience depression at any one time. Aware’s information and emotional support services, including new online support services which will come on stream in the next couple of weeks, offer people a safe space where they are understood and respected, where they can talk through their particular concerns and explore options available to them. Early intervention and ongoing support are key to managing and recovering from depression. Anyone who is concerned about depression can access Aware’s support services, which include a loCall helpline (1890 303 302) open 365 days a year as well as support groups across the country.
I often think how sad it is that having survived a life-threatening illness such as cancer, some survivors go on to live a life filled with fear, anxiety and depression. I urge you if you are feeling depressed, lonely or finding it hard to cope with fearful or anxious thoughts, please seek help – find a therapist, find a support group, go meet and talk with others who will understand what you are experiencing. You are not alone, however much it may feel that way to you now. If you are unable to open up to those closest to you, or if you are genuinely on your own, then groups like Aware are there with a listening ear.
There is help out there – all you have to do is ask. Life after cancer is not just about being alive, it is also about living well. And after all you’ve been through, don’t you deserve to live a long healthy and happy life?
For more information see http://www.aware.ie or call 01 661 7211.
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What an excellent post -thank you so much for lifting the lid on this subject and writing so movingly about the need to look after our mental health.
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Very well written and I am sure it will be helpful to many people who read this today.
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You make some excellent points here today. It is true that there is a code of silence surrounding the feelings of depresion that can hit quite forcibly after treatment ends. We need to talk about this more and put programs in place to help survivors cope with the post treatment let down.
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I strongly believe that the psycho-social aspects of a cancer diagnosis must be addressed from the outset and programs put in place to deal with this kind of depression. Thanks for highlighting this today
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It is important that we lift the taboo on depression – not just cancer related, but everyday depression. thanks for this post today which, although I don’t have cancer, I still found very helpful
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You do make some really important points!
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I am one of those who suffered quite severly with depression following my treatment for cancer. I cannot stress enough that you seek help if you feel this way – there is no need to suffer alone!
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I found this post extremely helpful and reassuring today – thank you so much for posting and thank you for all that you do to highlight the issues facing cancer suvivors in Ireland.
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Excellent post!
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Very important to highlight this so thanks
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I too experienced some quite debilitating depression during and after my cancer, which lingered for many months. It was a while before I sought help and I am only sorry I hadn’t done it sooner and saved myself some months of needless suffering
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Good to see the response you are getting here and to see this out in the open like this!
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Great post Marie! So glad to see some action being taken to bring about awareness and support for those of us who suffer from depression. I have been in the depths before and the last time was quite recent as you know. It is so important to be able to talk to someone and get the help you need. It doesn’t have to be a way of life. You will have to work at it but you can beat depression and people need to know that and have access to help. Thanks for shinning a light into the darkness.
Debbie
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Don’t forget the devastation left behind cancer’s wake. I am part of that horrible wreck. As a person who lost the love of my life, best friend and playpal,being the one left behind is profoundly sad, lonely, empty and isolating. No one truly understands the battle and the aftermath after losing the battle. You are expected to “move on”. Not likely. I almost feel like I am in a bubble and life is going on around me. At the same time, it is easier to just be alone. And lots of times, I feel I am the only one like this out there. Intellectually I know that these losses happen everyday…emotionally I feel that I am the only one.
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Nancy, thank you so much for sharing your feelings so honestly with me. You are so right – the pain of being the one left behind is also something we need to acknowledge. My heart goes out to you and I wish you healing and strength xxx
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Nancy…
I’m part of the walking wounded too. I love how you describe the person you lost. They are that and more. I miss my wife every single day…she left us 5 months ago. “Moving on” has a strange ring to it…as if we are leaving this person we love…really and truly love…behind. I don’t want to leave her behind…I don’t want to have this life I have w/o her in it….I don’t want to have that empty space next to me in bed every night. But there it is…and here I am.
I am going to “carry on”…some days strong other days not so much…but there is a strange part of me that feels like I had a torch passed to me through this. From her to me…to go and make this life…and my little world…a good and better place through the lessons I’ve learned.
I feel so bad for you and I feel bad for myself too…but you’re not alone. Yes…intellectually you know that…but now you’re hearing from someone that gets it. I hope in some small way it helps at least this day not seem as devastating.
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Dear Andy, thank you so much for taking the time to “talk” to Nancy like this. You write from a place of such wisdom and compassion and you are so willing to share the pain of your loss so openly. Thank you again.
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I love what Debbie has said..shining a light into the darkness – that is exactly what you are doing with this blog!
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Great to see such a response to this post!
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You’ve obviously hit a real cord with many ppl on this topic!
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Dear Marie,
Yet another insightful blog. You struck a cord with many I think. Thanks again for sharing this with us. You light a candle for so many.
Big hug, Annemieke
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Thanks Annemiekeh for helping me shine that light 🙂
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Wonderful what Andy said in response to Nancy – it helped me in a similar situation.
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You really struck a cord with ppl judging by the response to this post. Well done for highlighting this.
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