Burnt Out
I am sick in bed today. I have a sinking feeling I’ve developed a chest infection and I am feeling miserable and frustrated that I am sick. In a few days time I am due to speak at a conference on my favorite topic – blogging and I am worried I am not going to be able to make it to the event. In a week’s time, I will be flying to Stanford for Medicine X. I’ve been writing articles and reports, preparing and delivering talks and travelling throughout Europe and last week travelled as far as Australia for the Mayo Clinic Healthcare Social Media Summit. I’ve been so honored to have been invited to give these talks, but I’ve been working 17 hour days over the past three months and my body has finally said enough. You would think that after cancer, I’d be better able to heed my body’s warnings, but it seems not.
So this is just a little reminder to you all, no matter how tempting it can be when you are feeling well to want to make up for lost time and do all those things you can’t do when you are ill, please mind yourself too. I am the world’s worst at taking this advice, but hopefully next time I am rally-driving my body and mind, I might think to read this post, and remind myself, to slow down.
Meanwhile, could someone get me some hot water with lemon and honey for my cough please?
Does this happen to you? Do you find you push yourself to achieve things because you want to make up for lost time? Or have you found a better balance in life? I’d love to hear your thoughts on this.
😢 I think it happens to many of us from time to time. If I were closer the honey would be at your doorstep. Take a little down time all the travel and closed confinement is a nesting ground for infectious stuff. Maybe if you are able to get some rest things will shift gears and you’ll still be able to do Stanford. ❤️HUGS❤️ ~D
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Aw thanks Diane. I definitely picked up something on that long plane journey home from Australia.
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Feel better soon!
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Feel better soon, Marie. Rest and rest and rest. The body certainly has a way of speaking out when it needs a break. Much like you, I’m learning – still learning – how to listen! May there be some healing soup in your future, and a nice cup of hot lemon water with honey. 🙂
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Dear Marie – I am so sorry you are ill. I know how awful that can feel when you have a number of engagements coming up and you KNOW you have to do them. I’m sorry to bother you right now, but I have a message I’d like to send to people whose posts I find on one of you Weekly Roundups, I have sent two, but then I felt I really needed to check with you and get your OK. And I do apologize if that was the wrong thing to do.
This is the message:
Hi – I have followed Marie Ennis O’Connor’s Journeying Beyond Breast Cancer for some time. She has featured my poetry on occasion. I am contacting some of the people whose posts she has mentioned.
On next Monday and Tuesday, September 14 and 15, my award-winning breast cancer book, Fine Black Lines, will be FREE as an amazon Kindle eBook at ow.ly/vgHCQ. I am hoping many people can benefit from this and therefore I am asking for your help. If you are willing and able, would you spread the word however you can? Thank you very much.
Please disregard, if this has come at a bad time or is any kind of an imposition.
Love, Lois Hjelmstad
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Dear Lois, I am going to reply to you in a private message via Facebook.
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Wish I could bring you the honey and lemon!
I’ve spent my life pushing and going and going. I am trying VERY HARD now to sloooooow down. I did it during chemo and it felt so good that I made a vow that I would try to shift my life in that direction. Not at all easy– like my energy it’s a bit two steps forward one step back– but it’s a priority for me now, so I’m really working on it.
I hope you feel better soon… and perhaps even enjoy some hours of forced relaxation!
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Thanks for the reminder to take things slower Jenny – I find it hard to do, but it’s essential for our self-care
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It kind of remind me the first time I went into remission, I wanted to do everything at ounce! I had no time to be ‘taking it easy’ anymore, and then cancer got back. Now I am four months into remission again! and everything is pretty relax, taking baby steps.
Sending healthy vibes your way 🙂
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Hi Vilma, keep taking those baby steps. I am wishing you continued good health.
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Unfortunately, our bodies often don’t keep up with our wants, needs and desires. Being human is frustrating in that way. Feel better, Marie. xoxo
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I love that statement Eileen – about being human 😉 I hope to catch up with you again when I am in Stanford
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Marie, I would love to see you at Stanford. I’m still at the same cell phone number and you can always message me from Facebook also. Looking forward!
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Oh that’s wonderful Eileen – I am there for a whole week this time so we have more time to arrange to meet. I’ll be in touch 🙂
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Hope you’ll be feeling much better very soon Marie. And your advice is very good advice, I’m also guilty of running at 100mph until I fall flat in my face…. Should really know better by now though! Sending a big virtual hug, Tracy xoxox
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Yes, I go through this often. At my job for example, I never stop working. Ever. This weekend I decided to veg out, and it felt good. I push myself to do a lot of things because I feel I am running out of time (ever since my dx). Nancy posted this recently https://www.facebook.com/ThePinkMoonLoveliesEmpoweringStoriesOfSurvival/photos/a.444674515621042.1073741828.444490648972762/914560658632423/?type=1&theater (hope you can view it). It’s OK to take a break and slow down. It’s healthy. I hope you find the time to rest up and take care of yourself.
Good luck with your presentations. I am sure you’ll do well. Feel better.
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Thanks Rebecca for sharing this and for your kind words. Thank you all very much for your thoughtfulness
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Dear Marie,
only now reading this post. So very sorry you were so sick; I hope that by this time you are quite well again, and that you received lots of love and support – and HONEY. thank you for taking the time to send the message on how important it is to render self- care.
much love,
Karen
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Dear Karen – how lovely to hear from you again. I am all better now 🙂
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