Share your cancerversary story
I wrote a post at the end of September, celebrating my milestone 5-year cancerversary. In it I wrote of how I celebrated by doing the ordinary things – a walk, a coffee with a friend, cooking dinner for my husband…for it was the ordinary things I longed to be able to do again when I was ill. While for many people an occasion like this is a private time for reflection, others wish to share their stories. Recently I came across a website, run by The National Coalition for Cancer Survivorship (NCCS) specifically intended for people to share what their cancerversary – and their cancer survivorship – means to them by allowing them to create a personalized Web page that shares their story.
I think it’s a marvellous idea and from my reading on their website of what this organization is all about, right in keeping with their founding principle of establishing an organization that would change the parlance from cancer “victim” to cancer “survivor.” As regular readers will know, I very much share their vision of an organization that deals with the full spectrum of survivorship issues related to living with, through, and beyond a cancer diagnosis.
NCCS’s definition of a survivor, from the time of diagnosis and for the balance of life is now the norm for the cancer community and beyond. NCCS has expanded its definition of survivor to include family, friends, and caregivers.
Find out more at: http://www.canceradvocacy.org/
This is a very timely post as my 3 year cancerversary is approaching (one week before Christmas). It has been on my mind as usual when it approaches and each year has been different. The first year was lots of depression, the second year I felt like a new person and now the third year is many different things somewhere in between.
I am thinking my next blog post will be on this subject and who knows what I will find as I write that. I am going to check out NCCS right away! Thanks again for the info Marie!
Love, Debbie
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Dear Marie,
As you know I don’t have a cancerversary (have my acciversary) but loved reading about this website/blog from NCCS. As always you shown me something new in a very eloquent way.
Thanks once again, love Annemieke
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Thanks for the info on NCCS. It was good to check it out and wonderful to find lovely Suzanne (photographed with one of her horses) telling her story there. If she shared it on NCCS, I’m sure we are talking about a good website.
Love, Chari
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Timely for me as well, since I just had my one year anniversary. I’m feeling good. My hubby and I celebrated in a minor way and are celebrating a bit more after Thanksgiving.
I got a number of very negative comments when I posted about my 1 year…surprised me because I was expecting some yaays…and got a lot of folks who talked about how dark that day is to remember.
Maybe it’s because I’m “stage IV” and so folks already assume my imminent demise? I dunno. Or maybe because it’s hard for them to celebrate their own cancerversary.
For me, it’s a milestone like others in my life. Tomorrow is promised to no one, cancer or not.
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Hi Laura, it’s good to hear from you again. Congratulations on your one year milestone. I am sorry to hear you had negative comments, but I suppose when we put ourselves and our feelings out there in the public domain, this kind of thing happens from time to time. I would say those negative comments are a reflection of the fear felt by those people and you are only responsible for your own feelings, so enjoy your celebration. We all only have today, so celebrate it!
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what a great resource – thanks for letting us know about it – i hadn’t heard of it before now
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I am leaving this comment for Laura – so sorry to hear you received negative comments – I think what JBBC has said is spot on – those comments are a reflection of the fear felt by others – you must rise above this and continue to celebrate.
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just want to say how wonderful and upliftining always find your blog and i also love the comments that ppl leave.
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Martina and JBBC,
Thanks for the encouragement. I do also believe that people feel these fears because they love me. That’s an odd encouragement, too…but it works.
And I celebrated the heck out of my 1 year cancerversary!
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