“The message that people get from the media and from charity campaigns is that they have to ‘fight’ and ‘beat’ their cancer. Although well meaning, the effect of using war metaphors like this can be damaging to some people. If people are diagnosed with terminal cancer, then they are spoken of as ‘losing their battle’. Many patients are unhappy with their illness being discussed in this way. Blame is being put on the patient, and there’s almost a sense that, if you are dying, you must have given up and not have fought hard enough.
Professor Semino and her colleagues have been studying the use of metaphors in the way we talk about cancer since 2012. As part of their research they have analysed 1.5 million words taken from interviews and online forum discussions involving cancer patients, family carers and health professionals. The team found that the type of metaphors people chose to use when describing their cancer reflected and affected how they viewed and experienced their illness.
For some patients, some of the time, the idea of being engaged in a fight is motivating. Some people say with pride that “I’m such a fighter”, and they find a sense of meaning and purpose and identity in that. The study showed that we are all different, and different metaphors work for different people, and at different times.
According to Professor Semino, metaphors help people to express ideas that are particularly sensitive and emotional, and are therefore especially helpful. Rather than discouraging people from using any type of metaphor that may be helpful to them, she is working with the NHS to produce a metaphor manual, featuring many examples of metaphors produced by other cancer patients.
As metaphors are a tool for making sense of our experiences, when you are vulnerable and dying you should have as many tools at your disposal as possible, so that you can choose the one that suits you best at that time.
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Hi Deirdre, great to hear from you again!
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I feel this way (guilt) even as one who is not Stage 4. I purchased the drugs and treatment than “kicked cancer’s ass” and just showed up. I did no ass kicking. I will not accept blame nor credit when neither is due.
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I agree that anyone should be able to pick and choose what, if any, metaphors work for her. The problem comes when there is a blanketing approach or expectation and every patient is ‘expected’ to wear the same ‘blanket’. As for me, I am pretty weary of the battle metaphor so often used when someone dies. We still hear over and over that so and so lost her battle to cancer. Why not just say someone died of metastatic bc or whatever it was. Cancer language could use some updating. A metaphor manual, that sounds like an intriguing idea – I guess. Thanks for bringing up this topic again, Marie.
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And thanks to you Nancy and @curmudgeo for sharing your thoughts on this controversial topic
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I have been thinking about these metaphors more lately. I haven’t come to a conclusion one way or another, but I find it an interesting discussion! I think it is mostly personal preference. Some people like the warrior/battle mentality, it sets other people’s teeth on edge. Some people love pink ribbons, others can do without. I always figure, to each their own.
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I really enjoyed this post. I was diagnosed 12 years ago and at the time I was working with an energy healer. I had just gotten a divorce when I was diagnosed and I told her that I couldn’t identify with the “fighting/battling” language used around cancer because I was exhausted from the divorce! She said instead of “battling” why not replace the word with transforming or transformation. This was an immense help to me and I still use that “metaphor” today with other situations in my life. Thanks for the site!!!
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Hi Erin, I love that metaphor! Thanks so much for sharing it with us. I hope you continue to thrive on your own transformational journey.
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