Weekly Round Up
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blog posts which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Don’t forget if you have written a post which you would like readers to see, just leave a comment below.
This past week in Ireland and the UK, I’ve witnessed the “no make-up selfie” phenomenon sweep through my Facebook and Twitter timelines. I admit to feeling ambivalent about this being billed as a cancer awareness campaign – I don’t see how it does anything to raise awareness of the disease – no more than that old post the colour of your bra meme that did the rounds of Facebook a few years ago. However, I don’t want to be curmudgeonly about this. Charities have reported a huge upsurge in donations, and everyone who has posted a picture of their “naked” (ie without make-up selves) has the best intentions. I am never seen without my war-paint on – so fair play to those who have taken part. Audrey I salute you! Audrey wants to take a stand not just for those affected by breast cancer but in solidarity with all whose life has been affected by ill-health ;mental and physical – for as she says, who is making an effort on their behalf? And Emma Hannigan, who has no ambiguity when it comes to this, has posted her own striking version of a no-make up selfie on her blog.
Philippa recounts a small incident which led to a cut finger, but strikingly it also points to the vulnerability we feel long after an initial cancer diagnosis – a theme also echoed in Stephanie’s blog.
Jessica posts her eulogy to her Mom, something which really touched me, thinking of my own mother.
A terrific post from Katy on how cancer changes our life plans.
Nancy presents part two of her breast cancer alphabet and has a book giveaway on her blog.
Cancer Curmudgeon is reflecting on her complicated relationships with hope.
I love JoAnn’s post on finding friendship online.
Important information on Helen’s blog on complex bandaging treatment for Lymphedema.
Elizabeth asks some big questions about what it is to be a woman in today’s image obsessed society – a theme I find echoed in the Pink Underbelly’s blog this week. Both blogs touch on society’s judging of women. Perhaps the harshest judgment we can face is how we judge ourselves – check out Beth’s post “Scars As Beauty”.
Judging of another kind on Jennifer‘s blog as she writes about how her Stage IV cancer has made her feel socially awkward and asks “how do I navigate this weird space I’m in where I look mostly healthy but have treatments and am on disability and still live with this disease all the damn time? ” If she reveals the truth to strangers, how will she be judged?
Until next week.
Let’s commit to less judging, more understanding.
Yours with love
Marie xxx
Love it! Thank you again for doing these round ups. I’m going to dive in 🙂 ~Catherine
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Thanks for the wonderful round-up of super writers!!
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Ah now I get it … I was confused by the no make-up selfie that a friend tagged to me on FB…. She is Irish.. But there was no explanation so confusion!!! But I have to say there will be no make-up free selfie from me as it looks awful!!!! I will just do a donation to the cancer council for her!!! Helen
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thanks, Marie – I always feel like I get to unwrap a goodie surprise when I read new blogs! just love that feeling, and I learn so much from so many incredibly talented writers. xoxo, karen
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Karen, what a delightful thing to say – thank you as always for your unflagging support of all of us in the blogosphere x
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Thank you for including my last post, and for the work of rounding all this up each week.
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Thank you, Marie, for putting together this latest round-up and for including my post.
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This is a very powerful round up Marie – and as always, delightful to meet new blogging friends. Thank you for listening to my whine and sharing it 🙂 x
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I wouldn’t call it a whine at all Philippa! Thinking of you this week and sending you good thoughts x
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Hi. When I saw the make free selfies I cringed. Why? Because, although it’s for “a good cause” I bet not one of those ladies have been there for a cancer patient. It’s like giving us a wee pat on the head and sending us on our merry way. It makes them feel good. Try going without hair for awhile.Some of the girls that came up on my face book page wouldn’t even ask how I was or send a text while I was on treatment or ask how my husband was keeping. I know I am whining but sometimes I feel that having any disease is hard work both physically and mentally that no-one can understand.
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Mona, you’ve brought up a really, really great point, about those who wouldn’t even send a text while you were in treatment. It’s easy to post a facebook update or take a no-make up selfie,but try finding time to offer some real support – that will truly make a difference!
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The other evening, at the high of make up free selfies my daughter came to me telling me proudly that she had donated money to cancer.ie. She went without her make up for 3 days. She is 15 and pays for her own phone credit. I was flagastered! But so proud. The next day my 18 yr son showed me a picture after the girls put make up on him at school break and donated money. So maybe my first reaction was too quick. Maybe, we that have had cancer are the people that teenagers look up to. Maybe we have influenced them to be aware. A proud mammy.
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Thank you for this beautiful round up Marie. Thanks also for explaining what those no makeup selfies were! Thinking of you and hoping all is well. xoxo
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papayaleaves.wordpress.com is a site hosted by a person who lost her mother due to cancer. I hope some will pay a visit to this site.
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Such a great up, Marie…..Gai
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