My Mum
I have been MIA over the past few days as I have been at the hospital where my Mum is very ill. She suffered a suspected stroke on Sunday but tests have ruled this out and they are still trying to determine what is wrong with her. A scan revealed lesions and swelling on her brain and the part that is affected is that part which controls language and comprehension. At the moment they are running tests for brain cancer. She is finding it hard to communicate with us and is very confused. It is heartbreaking not to be able to talk to her properly and explain to her what is going on.
My Mum is the kindest, most loving, generous and gentle person you could meet and we all love her and miss her so much. Please hold her in your thoughts and prayers over the coming days and thank you to all who have reached out to me with your support.

Oh I’m so sorry. I will be thinking of her and of you as well. xxx
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Marie, I’d noticed all right that I wasn’t getting anything in my inbox. I’m so sorry to hear about your mum: I’m sure she must be confused and scared. It’s good that you can be there for her, though I have no doubt you are finding the sense of helplessness difficult to deal with. But, really, being there is everything that she needs and wants from you right now. And you know how to do that.
I’ll keep you and her in my thoughts and prayers.
Best wishes,
Máire
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You have my thoughts, prayers and hopes, Marie. I know how very difficult it is to see a beloved parent so impaired. Know too, that your presence & love is making all the difference in the world to her right now. She knows you are there.
Please let me know how I can help. With love,
Jody
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Marie,
You and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Warmest Wishes and Prayers,
Suzzann
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I’m so sorry to hear this. I know how special a mother’s love is, and my heart is heavy for you. Wishing for peace as you go through this difficult time.
xo,
Nancy
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Oh Marie, I am so sorry and your mom and family are definitely in my prayers. Thank you for posting her picture because her beauty and kindness shine through!
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Marie,
I’m so sorry. You probably know this, but we went through something similar with my mom earlier this year. Her sodium levels were way, way low because her thyroid wasn’t working properly. But it’s terrible waiting for those answers.
Love and hugs to you.
Katie
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Thinking of you, my dear
L xx
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Hi Marie
Your Mum and your family in my thoughts. It’s so tough when you see your Mum in such a distressed way and not able to communicate. I remember my own Mum with her final battle with multiple sclerosis and how incredibly hard it was to communicate at first… but you work out a way, a look or an eye movement… and just to know you are there with her and that love travels both ways.
Hugs
AnnaGoAnna x
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OH, Marie,
I am so sorry to hear about your mum….last week my family and I were traveling down the same road with my dad. My heart aches for yours…and your family. Please know you are all in my prayers!
God is a God of healing and miracles!!
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thank you all so much – your lovingkindness and support have lightened my way and given me hope and strength x
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Marie, I am holding you, your Mum and your family in my prayers and God is holding you all in the palm of his hand. As Jody said, your Mum knows you are there and that is probably bringing her more peace than you realize. I hope that you get some answers soon. Please contact me if I can do anything for you.
Love, Debbie
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Very sorry to see this. I know how difficult this is.
Take care of yourself.
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Marie,
What a beautiful woman! I am so sorry to hear about your mum. If I can provide any information, try to get answers, tell you what I know, connect you with someone…I am here. Unfortunately, this is where my experience is. My thoughts, prayers and love are with you, Mum, and your family,
Nancy (uvmer)
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Joining in to send love and prayers, thinking of you and wishing you all strength. P xx
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praying for all of you marie..
lauren
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My thoughts with you at this difficult time Marie. Lots of love, Sarah
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Marie,
Just know you are and will continue to be prayed for. I know you mum appreciates all that you are doing. Even though for the moment she may not be able to communicate in the same way you are use to she knows all you are doing. Our God is a God of healing so I am praying for some encouragment today. Long distant hugs and love coming from North Carolina!
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Oh, Marie, I am so sorry this is happening. My prayers and healing thoughts are headed your way. Hope that the days to come bring some clearing of the confusion for your mum and more peace of mind for you. Lots of love, Liz
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Marie,
I will continue to hold you and your mother in my prayers. Take strength from the strength she’s given you all these years, through your breast cancer and your losses. I know you are just like your mum, loving and loved by all.
XOXOXO,
Brenda
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your mum looks lovely – just like you with the big warm smile and shining eyes – sending her lots of healing good wishes x
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Marie, I love the picture of your mom. She’s beautiful. I’m hoping for good outcomes…
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Praying for you and your beautiful Mum.
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Thank you so much Lisa.
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