Weekly Round Up
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blog posts which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Don’t forget if you have written a post which you would like readers to see, just leave a comment below.
I am starting off this week with some apologies. Some of your blogs have slipped through the weekly round-up lasso of late. So let me fix that straight away.
The Cancer Curmudgeon has been writing about how cancer changes us (or not) and I was also particularly struck by the image and quote she shared about walking our own journey. It ties in perfectly with a decision Philippa has been writing about and her observation that “everyone has the right to make the decision which is right for them and for that to be respected” is such an important one.
Rachel has a very informative post on exercising through cancer treatment and beyond.
Check out talented artist Sarah’s art project ‘PAINT C OUT!’
Debbie’s latest post on love and the vastness of cancer really touched me, particularly this Carl Sagan quote:
For small creatures such as we, the vastness is bearable only through love.
I was reminded of this reading Scorchy’s deeply moving post on the reality of visiting the ER alone and the loneliness of facing cancer without someone by your side.
I hadn’t really considered what alone really meant until I lay there in the ER, pain coming from two locations, the one slowly and consistently taking me over to the point where I could no longer really advocate for myself. To be able to lean on someone, instead of having to keep it together. The love that comes through someone just holding your hand. If you have it, never take it for granted.
I hope Scorchy knows the heartfelt love and good wishes that so many of us have for her. If we cannot physically be by her side, and hold her hand through the darkness, let’s do it virtually. Please join me in sending her all our love and support online.
Love is definitely in the air in the blogosphere as both Yvonne and Eileen writes of their love for their daughters.
I know for a fact that Catherine doesn’t take the love she and her husband share and is deeply appreciative of his support while she is undergoing scans and appointments to determine if her cancer has come back. As always, thoughts and love go out to you Catherine.
And what of those who are with someone during illness but that person is not the supportive partner you need? Carolyn has a terrific blog on the subject this week, while the Cancer In My Thirties blog has a very painful first hand report of its reality.
Elsewhere in the blogosphere…
Nancy has some very useful and pertinent advice on making the decision on whether to have genetic testing.
Anne Marie is celebrating a blogoversary – her blog is officially two years old this week.
Victoria writes about the sometimes nasty after effects of cancer treatment and shares what helps her heal.
The urge to write is the subject of the latest post on Telling Knots
The Pink Underbelly is settling into her new home and this week she has found an intriguing to-do list.
I am delighted to see Renn blogging again and her observations about hitting emotional overload will resonate with many of us.
Beth shares an insight into what it is like to worry about ageing parents and offers an insight into the pain of bearing witness to a father with dementia.
I am really grateful to Elizabeth for writing so honestly about the nature of online relationships and what happens when things go wrong with social media.
While on the other side of the social media coin there are a lot of very positive outcomes and this forms the basis of Susan’s blog this week.
I always appreciate Terri sharing so honestly about the vulnerabilities and the doubts of pursuing your dream – it always inspires me.
Finally I leave you with a beautiful quote from Audrey’s blog to carry us all into another week.
“…deep understanding is, I believe, the most precious gift one can give to another.” – Carl Rogers
Until next week – let’s practice a little more understanding, tolerance and love.
Yours with much love
Marie xxx
I also loved the quote on the Cancer Curmudgeon’s site. Cancer in my Thirties’ post made me cry. Seriously, it broke my heart… And others made me smile, and am still reading. As always, Marie, you provided a great round-up. Except for that Hat woman, but don’t get me started. 😉
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Marie, I have read some of these posts, which are terrific, and plan to read the others. Thank you so much for including my post in your round-up. I really appreciate it!
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Thanks so much, Marie. I so appreciate being part of the breast cancer blogging community. Thank you for helping us continue to find, befriend, and learn from eachother.
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Hi Marie – I’m so honoured that my post “When You Live With a Serious Diagnosis and a Bad Marriage” made it to your impressive list this week. Thank you for this.
Cancer In My Thirties’ post did not make me cry – it made me feel royally pissed off. I watched my own sister put up with 16 years of marriage to a man like this (no matter how we urged her to GET OUT NOW BEFORE HE KILLS YOU!) But as many of the original comments to CIMT’s blog post reminded us, nobody listens to the well-meaning urgencies of others until the penny drops.
For my sister, this finally happened when her young son began swearing at her just like he’d been hearing his Dad do for his entire childhood. She had been teaching her two boys that it’s okay to treat women like this, and worse, she’d been teaching her little daughter that when men treat you like this, you just shut up and take it. CIMT’s kids are watching and learning this horrible lesson she’s teaching them, too.
I hope the penny drops soon for her and for ALL other women out there who somehow believe they deserve to stay with a partner who is killing them on the installment plan.
regards,
C
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Marie:
I had no idea when I wrote my post this week what I was tapping into. Love and the vastness of cancer is something we can never take for granted as Scorchy so beautifully writes, It’s makes all the difference and every day, in my personal life and as part of this community, I am humbled by its effects. Thank you so much for including me in this most beautiful collection of writings.
Survival > Existence,
Debbie
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What a terrific round up of blogs this week. Looking forward to catching up with them all.
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I am awestruck by your roundup, Marie. I have ready many of the blogs this week and they are rife with emotion. You’ve done another excellent job at presenting them on the JBBC platter for our enjoyment and learning. Hail, Hail to the JBBC and our most royal Marie! 😉
PS Thanks for including me!
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Marie I just love your round up. I am discovering new things I missed and of course our well wishes go to Scorchy and Catherine. Thank you for including me. I love your quote, “Let’s practice a little more understanding, tolerance, and love.” I also thank you so much for bringing so many of us together and reminding us that we are all connected through our words, thoughts, ideas and pictures. Hugs and xoxoxo – Susan
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Thanks so much for putting together another round-up and thank you for including my post on genetic testing. I appreciate it, Marie.
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Thank you for the mentioning of ‘Paint C Out!’ Marie.. as always you do a excellent variety of blogs.. each facing there own quandaries through the web of a cancer diagnosis and there after.. Support and love to my fellow blogging sisters keep up the good work in highlighting the true nature of this disease and the questions that arise… xx
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Thank you once again for your round-up. It’s a touch stone, and I very much appreciate your sharing my story, and for sending out the love. 🙂 There’s so much ‘wait and see’ involved, it’s just so nice to have you and the other ladies online cheering me onward. It’s a good reminder to push when I quite frankly get tired of it all.
You’re a bright spot on my Friday, and the round up is quite good too! Now, I’m off to read some posts!
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What wonderful comments everyone. I loved reading them all and they really make me feel humbled and honored to be part of such a loving community of bloggers.
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Another stellar grouping of exceptional blogs. Thank you, Marie, for including me, for collecting these web gems, and for being the glue that holds our blog friendships together. Much love to you, my sweet friend. xo
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I always enjoy your Weekly Round Ups, Marie, but this one is truly a tour-de-force. With a tendency to run towards the curmudgeon side myself, I especially enjoyed the introduction to the Cancer Curmudgeon. I don’t know what your secret is, but your posts are simply exceptional, time after time.
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Thanks so much for including me, Marie… And it sounds like another incredible roundup of posts… I hope to get to them all. But even if I don’t, I’m glad you bring us all together here nonetheless… xo
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thank you, marie – all the time, effort, reading, considering, condensing the topics – you do it all so beautifully! but I believe the most important and apparent ingredient to the delicious mixes you serve up comes straight from your heart – it is love, marie, and it comes right through from your heart to all the bloggers and their readers. it is the essence of love that makes the BC community so thankful to you for bringing all of us together, to share stories, to reach out to others, to learn, to be compassionate, and to be inspired in ways that help us to keep on going.
much love to you, my dear friend
Karen, TC XOXO
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