Weekly Round Up: The Life Carries On Edition
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blog posts which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Don’t forget if you have written a post which you would like readers to see, just leave a comment below.
As the media “excitement” over Angelina Jolie’s prophylactic mastectomy predictably abates this week, replaced by another celebrity story, the reality of breast cancer continues for thousands of women across the world. And the thoughtful discussions continue – discussions on the stark reality of reconstructive surgery by The Pink Underbelly ; palliative care for a young woman by Cancer In My Thirties; a roll call of those taken from us by this disease on Eileen’s blog; the reality of being a single Mom and living with cancer on Lauren’s blog and The Sarcastic Boob ‘s thoughtful post on “the crummy reality of living with breast cancer”.
And life goes on with all its quotidian ups and downs, daily joys and sorrows – a theme I found beautifully illustrated by Catherine this week in her blog and by Philippa’s pictures of the seasonal colours in Yangon.
Dr Gia Sison is a Thomasian Filipino Doctor and blogger, breast cancer survivor and advocate – check out her latest blog on the lesson of frienemy.
Entering A World Of Pink is a new blog on male breast cancer.
Loving the picture on Anne Marie’s blog of herself with Dr Susan Love.
If you haven’t already seen it, check out the fabulous Mag’s Blog – a breast cancer blog told in comic strip style.
A Fresh Chapter has a brand new look – and it looks fab. While you are checking it out, make sure you read Terri’s latest post on throwing in the towel.
Anne Marie is sharing her “Confessions Of A Cancer Fraud” story on Chris’s Cancer Community.
Nancy reviews The Pink Moon Lovelies: Empowering Stories of Survival, on her blog this week and if you hurry you can be in with a chance to win a copy of the book. And over on Beth’s blog, there is a review of Nancy’s own book, Getting Past the Fear: A Guide to Help You Mentally Prepare for Chemotherapy.
Finally, this week I leave you with a gentle reminder from Dr Ann Becker Schutte for the week ahead and the next time you find yourself ready to throw your hands in the air, whether it is in a relationship, with a work project, or on another personal goal, or the next time you feel completely overwhelmed by the painful things in life:
- Take 5-10 minutes to breathe. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth. Try to gently lengthen your exhale with each breath.
- After your breathing has deepened and slowed, ask yourself to name what you are feeling. You can use a journal or a mental list.
- Once you have identified your feelings, ask yourself what you truly want from this situation. Try to be specific about the desired outcome, naming actions instead of just feelings.
- Imagine the barriers between you and your desired outcome slowly melting.
- Gently, take a step (talk with someone, become active yourself) that moves you toward your desired outcome. Remind yourself that you might be just as successful softening into this outcome as you would pushing toward it (maybe more!).
Softening into next week…
Yours with love
Marie xxx
Hi Marie
Really appreciate the affirmation. You rock! Thanks and keep on shining 🙂
Gia
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Thanks Gia!
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Thanks Marie! As always, a wonderful round-up and I look forward to catching up on everything I missed this week while I was buried in website redesigns:)
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Once again.. loving the new website Terri 😉
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Thanks for the Weekly Roundup. It’s always great to read these posts. 🙂
Some people might be interested in my latest post, Cancer Words, which presents a discussion in the Journal of Clinical Oncology about what to call people who have cancer. The link is http://tellingknots.wordpress.com/2013/05/23/cancer-words/
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Thnaks for letting us know about your latest post – this is always a topic which garners a lot of interest and comment in the cancer community. Looking forward to reading it.
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Thank you. And thanks again for putting this together each week.
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Marie, this week I blogged about pain, not just the physical, but what I call the Monster in the cupboard, which is whether my daughter understands my cancer kills: http://t.co/oLOJDfjF9V
I blog as Kate Has Cancer, at http://katebreastcancer.blogspot.ca/
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Thanks so much, Marie, for putting together another terrific looking roundup and many thanks for including my giveaway post. Be sure to enter!
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I look forward to reading through any post I’ve missed. Thanks for including my rambling thoughts in your round-up 🙂 I very much appreciate it, Marie.
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I am a big fan of your “ramblings” and musings Catherine 😉
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Thanks so much for including me in your esteemed list! I am honored! And thank you for the 5 steps — I have at least one life situation I’m planning to employ them with. 😉
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Delighted to hear that you found something useful in this week’s round-up Leisha 🙂
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🙂
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Thanks Marie for this wonderful round up of this weeks blogs. I always find something that I missed and I love the great advice from Dr Ann Becker Schutte.
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I really enjoy putting the weekly update together and what an inspirational way to finish the week with the gentle reminder from Dr Ann to soften toward our challenges.
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I just practiced the steps you mention at the end. I am now softening into my desired outcomes instead of dreading facing them. Thanks for all the great blogs for this week. I have been traveling, so I have to catch up. xo
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They say we teach what we need to know Jan (or write about it in this case) and the idea of softening into the difficulties of life is something I certainly need to learn myself!
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dear marie,
i tried the sofening steps and they helped me. my desired outcome was to come home and not feel bereft and lonely. it really did help me to think about how much i love the idea of “home”, the frisky greeting i get from our dog, sadie, and remembering that home is as much a state of mind as a place. thank you for this wonderful round-up – i always look forward to it, and the chance to visit blogs i haven’t yet discovered, and make new friends.
much love, XOXO,
karen, TC
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What a beautiful comment Karen. I know how lonely and difficult this time is for the newly bereaved – it is still so raw for you. Please continue to be gentle and compassionate with yourself xxxxxx
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Thanks, Marie, for including my book review on Nancy’s wonderful e-book. I so appreciate it.
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