Weekly Round Up
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blog posts which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Don’t forget if you have written a post which you would like readers to see, just leave a comment below.
The WEGO Health Activist Writer’s Month continues to yield great writing – check out the contributions by The Pink Underbelly, Yvonne Watterson, Audrey Birt and Renn.
Katie is struggling with a question that we all have faced/are facing at some point in our journey with cancer: who am I without cancer? This is a common feeling post cancer, which as we know is an unsettling time for many survivors. Our cancer story doesn’t end the day our treatment ends (and for some the treatment goes on) and this is a theme movingly taken up by Susan on her blog this week also.
If Katie was hoping for a epiphany after her recent trip to Delhi with A Fresh Chapter, then Terri has some words of wisdom for her – and for the rest of us.
Epiphanies don’t happen in real life like they do in the movies. There is no perfect moment of clarity where everything messy in your life gets resolved and you are never un-happy, lonely, or searching for direction again.
I love Terri’s reminder that life doesn’t reveal itself to us in earth shattering moments of clarity but in the small moments that if we are not careful we can miss.
One of the most common fears we face as cancer survivors is the fear of recurrence, and this is a fear being faced right now by Yvonne Newbold who is writing about it in her blog Adventures With Breast Cancer.
Nancy is weighing in on the language of cancer – “always a hot topic in Cancer Land” – and indeed it’s a hot topic too this week on The Cancer Curmudgeon’s blog and for Scorchy, aka The Sarcastic Boob who writes:
Those of us with cancer have to grow a skin that is thicker than normal. Wanting those who would not normally have a care in the world about cancer to stop and consider how we feel is normal; expecting them to do so is Utopian.
I enjoyed following AnneMarie’s tweets from the American Association for Cancer Research Annual Meeting and now that she is back home, she has written a review of what she learned and who she met on her trip.
Diane and her gorgeous Golden Retriever, Arson, are celebrating a win this week, reminding us that amidst our times of pain and struggle there are still times and things worth celebrating.
Beth is extolling the joys of visiting a bookstore with her daughter.
Victoria is feeling “cautiously optimistic” this week after some follow-up testing.
Paying tribute to carers is the topic in Chris’s Cancer Community blog this week.
“How do you know it’s time to stop enduring and face the unknown?” This is the question posed by Debbie and her answer?
Simple. When the fear of “having to change” becomes less awful than the hell you are living, you are ready.
And if you want some more guidance on this, check out Pasha’s latest blog about change and moving forward.
At the beginning we don’t have to move ahead fearlessly. We can move ahead with our legs trembling, and with our arms outstretched, looking for the nearest compassionate witness to call upon for encouragement. What is important is that we take the first step and keep going.
Yours with love
Marie xxx
Marie, I just love your weekly round up. There’s always something that I missed and I really enjoy going back through the blogs. I am so touched that you have included me among so many other fantastic bloggers. I find it so incredible the way that you tie posts together to make us all part of a community that supports and encourages each other. Thank you! xoxox
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Your comment about how the posts come together to make us part of a community really touched me Susan – thanks for making my week x
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Marie:
Such an inspiring Round-Up this week! Thank you again for including WhereWeGoNow among these tremendous blogs. It’s always, always an honor. Have a fabulous weekend!
Survival > Existence,
Debbie
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Thanks so much for including my post on cancer language, Marie!
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It’s a topic that never goes away Nancy – so important that we continue to draw awareness to it in our blogs
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Fantastic roundup, Marie. I particularly love Debbie’s line about change, “When the fear of ‘having to change’ becomes less awful than the hell you are living, you are ready.” For sure!
And I also love Pasha’s view: “At the beginning we don’t have to move ahead fearlessly. We can move ahead with our legs trembling, and with our arms outstretched, looking for the nearest compassionate witness to call upon for encouragement. What is important is that we take the first step and keep going.”
PS Thanks for mentioning me and the HAWMC challenge! It is certainly that! I just finished yesterday’s post today, and will post today’s and tomorrow’s today too! Yowzah!
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So glad both Debbie’s and Pasha’s words resonated with you too Renn and well done on keeping up with the HAWMC challenge
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I just discovered your round up. Very nice.
Your readers might be interested in a post on my blog re: the “language” of cancer which, as you say, is a hot topic:
http://www.michaelwosnick.com/when-dealing-with-cancer-loser-language-doesnt-work/
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Thanks so much for sharing the link to your blog Dr Wosnick – I am looking forward to checking it out.
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What a wonderful round-up and the perfect reading material for an airport boarding lounge. Thank you so much for including A Fresh Chapter. Excited to pass the next hour with all of these wonderful women.
Terri
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I can just see you in my mind’s eye right now Terri in that airport boarding lounge 🙂
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Thanks for the roundup. Always a pleasure to receive these.
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Always a pleasure to hear from you Jan x
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I LOVE your roundups, Marie. I look forward to catching up with those I missed. Thank you so much for including my latest Calling the Shots posting.
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Always a pleasure Beth and well done on sticking to your commitment of writing one blog post a week
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Marie, thank you for mentioning my blog. Not sure if it’s something with my blog but, it seems when you post my links it takes you to the previous blog rather than where you are trying to send the reader. This is the second time I’ve noticed it in the roundup. I’ll look around my site to see if there is something to this. I want to say this odd functionality was on someone else’s link in the roundup and I had to search for where you were sending me.
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Hi Diane, I will also check it out on my links too – in case it is a mistake I have made.
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Diane, that link should be correct now.
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Lots to catch up with here – thanks for putting this together each week.
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Reblogged this on The Anti-Cancer Club and commented:
A wonderful blog with a weekly synopsis of heart felt cancer thoughts and sentiments. A Must Read!
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Wonderful round-up, Marie! I look forward to catching up on my blog reading 🙂 ~Catherine
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And I neglected to say “thank you” for including me, Marie, in the round-up. It’s really appreciated.
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