Weekly Round-Up
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blogs which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Remember, if you have written or read a post recently which you would like me to share with readers, then please leave a comment below.
Each week, as I settle in to read your blogs and put together the round-up, I look for patterns and themes in the blogosphere. This week, Debbie’s latest post on burning bridges brought my own thoughts on when it is time to walk away back to mind. The theme is also echoed in Beth’s latest blog on The Support Group That Went Haywire. And similarly, Lois has shared her own thoughts on divisions and hierarchy within the cancer community, and finishes with the wonderful words ” no one can put me down if I won’t go down.”
One of the things that many bloggers find challenging is finding the time to keep a blog going when life/work takes over, and that is the situation Eileen finds herself in as she returns to work. Nevertheless, she promises us that she remains committed to her blog and her words on what blogging has meant to her really struck a chord with me.
I’ve so enjoyed not only the creative expression, but connecting with so many of you in your comments here and on many of your own blogs. When I first entered the blogosphere, I couldn’t have imagined that I’d get back so much more than I give, particularly in the connections I’ve made with others.
Another theme which is close to many of our hearts is that of loss. We have witnessed too much loss in our community – this week we lost another beautiful young woman with the passing of Lisa Lynch – and as our hearts grieve perhaps some of us might find comfort in these words shared by Carolyn Thomas:
..we could choose, for example, to look at our lives as a long meandering path. And on this path from time to time, others will join us and walk alongside. Some will share our path for only a short time – like temporary co-workers or neighbours who move away – while others – like spouses and longterm friends – may be on our path with us for years….And when the time is right – and only then – when we have learned everything we needed to learn from these people on our path, and when they have learned everything they needed to from us, they will leave our paths and move on….But in our Western cultures, we tend to rail against such departures. We may not want them to leave, we’re not ready for them to leave, we want them back on our paths beside us…Instead, my friend advised, we might want to try thanking them for sharing our path for exactly the correct amount of time, and for teaching us so much along the way.
Elsewhere in the blogosphere….
An insightful and thoughtful piece on filtering the information we receive both on and offline on Chris’s Cancer Community.
Keep updated on the adventures of the Delhi Dozen on A Fresh Chapter.
Nancy is tackling the confusion that still surrounds the issue of lymphedema.
Elaine is still haiku writing.
Kathi reveals her geeky side.
Finally, Renn has shared two timeless poems from Henry Wadsworth Longfellow; the words of which are a fitting end to this week
Let us, then, be up and doing,
With a heart for any fate;
Still achieving, still pursuing,
Learn to labor and to wait.
Until next week.
Yours with love
Marie xxx
It’s interesting, Marie, how you seamlessly piece together common themes – like so many postings in the same week on faltered or stressed relationships, often tied to illness. Oddly, I just took a break from an article I was working on to check your Weekly RoundUp – the article I’ve begun is on how illness affects relationships and what to do about it. More coincidence (or not?): Carolyn’s article on the chronically ill and their caregivers … my daughter was just reading to me from the very book Carolyn referenced.
The theme of loss hits close to home to everyone of us who comes to this site and other sites like yours … we just don’t get away from it. Just lost my best friend to leukemia Monday. 😦
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So sorry to hear about your friend, Rachel. Know that lots of love is coming your way from the blogosphere.
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Rachel, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your friend – thoughts and prayers go out to you dear xxx
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Marie, thanks for another stellar Round Up. It’s so great to have all these wonderful blogs, and I look forward to Fridays knowing I’ll have lots of reading material for the weekend! xo
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Marie:
I’m honored and thrilled to see a quote from my blog post in the round-up. The quote I used to open my post, “Sometimes you get the best light from a burning bridge.” (Don Henley) really spoke to me this week. I hope whatever bridges you’re burning provide you with this most wonderful light.
Survival > Existence,
Debbie
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Thanks so much Marie for including a link to my “It Lasts As Long As It Lasts” blog post from Heart Sisters, and also for sharing each of your other wonderful picks here. I too loved Don Henley’s burning bridge quote in Debbie’s post, for example, and her important message. Knowing when to let go – especially of those relationships that suck the very life right out of us! – can be a liberating lesson.
regards,
C.
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I am delighted to have found your blog Carolyn – it is one I will visit regularly from now on 🙂
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Marie,
Thank you for including my post in this week’s roundup! I so appreciate the work you do to create these roundups. I’m honored to be included among these great bloggers.
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It’s just wonderful to have you back blogging regularly again Beth 🙂
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Thanks for this incredible roundup. I have learned so much from the writings of these fabulous bloggers. xo
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Thank you for still sharing, commenting and being such an important part of our community Jan xxx
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Marie, thank you for mentioning me and Longfellow in the same sentence! (When will that ever happen again?!) You have a wonderful ability to find the common thread. I also love discovering new bloggers. I never leave a Friday Roundup without adding at least one new bloggy friend!
PS Happy St. Paddy’s Day to you! I recently discovered that one of my great-grandmother was born in Kildorrery. We knew she was from Ireland but had never known exactly where.
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You sure made me smile Renn with your comment about Longfellow and you 🙂 And I love what you say about discovering new friends through the round-up – that just made my week! And now I know we share an Irish heritage, I feel even more connected to you my dear – the blessings of the Irish on you this weekend and always x
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dear marie,
this round-up was a marvel of connecting common threads! i love these posts of yours each week when i get to reflect on the blogs i’ve read and been deeply moved , and find new bloggers’ posts that engage and intrigue me to check out their sites, learn new things, and have the privilege of making new friends. you ROCK fridays, my sweet friend!
love, XOXO,
karen, TC
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Karen, what an amazing thing to say – you just rocked MY week – thank you xxx
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Thanks, Marie, for your condolences and other kind words you have shared over time.
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Thank you Marie for this fantastic round up. I find so many great new posts that I missed and I love the way you tie together the common themes. I was fascinated by the hierarchy of cancer survivors and how it related to your post that I loved when you spoke about knowing when it’s time to walk away. I also had a laugh when Eileen wrote about WordPress and dope. It’s priceless! Meanwhile I am so sorry Rachel for the loss of your friend to leukemia. Here’s to another great week in our blogging world.
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Susan I love how your comment in itself is a round-up 🙂
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Marie, Not sure if this would be good for your next round-up or if this might be an interesting topic for a blog post but today as I was organizing my posts around my own experience with breast cancer here in France, I was reminded of a very good organization here called Cancer Support France. http://www.cancersupportfrance.org/. They offer all kinds of services for the English-speaking community here (Brits, Irish, Americans, Canadians, Australians…) who are going through their own cancer journeys so far from their home countries. They are a fantastic resource with a hot-line, support groups, translations of French documents and the like. They can help a migrant who doesn’t understand the French healthcare system and doesn’t speak French very well. I’ve met the woman who founded it – she is a breast cancer survivor from Great Britain. When I was going through chemo they gave me an “active listener” – an American woman who is a long-term resident here and there were days when I was in treatment where I swear she kept me sane. Really fine folks.
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What a wonderful thing Victoria – thanks so much for sharing this information which I am interested in following up. Kind Regards Marie
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