Weekly Round-Up
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blogs which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Remember, if you have written or read a post recently which you would like me to share with readers, then please leave a comment below.
One of the things, among the very many things, that I love about blogging, is when something one of us has written sparks a train of thought in someone else, and they expand on it in their own blog. Anne Marie has done just that this week with her own weekly wrap up and The Scarcastic Boob has expanded on my new normal post with her own unique take.
Nancy’s latest post on taking the time to grieve our losses speaks to me at a deep level. I seem to have written such a lot about loss on my own blog since I started it – even more so since losing my mother and suffering several miscarriages over the past couple of years. I have learned that grief doesn’t stick to a set timetable – it is a process that takes time, but society often pushes us to be over the grief by some imposed time frame. We aren’t always allowed the time we need to fully grieve. Being able to take that time through blogging has been immensely healing for me – knowing that others understand this process is also part of the healing.
Of course, finding support through these tough times is so important and this is the topic that Jenn is focusing on this week in her blog.
Nancy also writes about our reluctance as a society to face up to death – a theme echoed on Elizabeth’s blog:
In the end we are all going to die. Some sooner than later. Some by the hand of another (or an accident), some by illness, some by “natural causes.” And yet, even though we know that, we are spooked by the idea of it, and many seem unable to handle the idea of an illness that has been labelled as a “killer.”
I thought of Nancy’s post again when I read Eileen’s latest thoughts on the beauty of sadness. If we could choose not to feel loss, sadness and grief, we would I am sure forego the experience. However, to quote the writer, Pearl S. Buck, there is an alchemy in sorrow. It can be transmuted into wisdom, which, if it does not bring joy, can yet bring happiness.
Debbie touches on another of my favorite themes this week – creativity – and specifically the theme of finding poetry in cancer. And speaking of creativity, I just love Phillipa’s five stickie plan – a fun alternative to writing those to-do lists!
Yvonne has been writing up a storm this week, so much so that I couldn’t pick just one of her posts to showcase here. So check out her amazing blog time to consider the lilies (which is sporting a gorgeous new typeface) to read her latest posts.
So what else has been happening in the blogosphere?
Let me introduce you to Victoria, an American living in Paris and whose intriguingly titled blog,The Franco-American Flophouse is one I am looking forward to following.
Susan is advocating that we become more aware of the environmental causes of breast cancer while Kathi has a special Valentine’s wish this year. Elaine is still writing her haiku each day; The Pink Underbelly is off on an adventure in NYC, and there are exciting developments going on in Kim’s world.
Finally, I leave you with a quote on Liza’s blog on being disruptive:
I have learned as an activist, sometimes you must be disruptive to be noticed. Only when you are noticed can you be heard.
~Regina Holliday
Here’s to a thoroughly disruptive week ahead for all of us!
Until next week.
Yours with love
Marie xxx
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LOVE the quote ….. Must be disruptive to be noticed. I love this even more: We have turned into a disruptive flash mob! One never knows when we will all jump on a band wagon and demand our voices be heard. That’s the truest power of social media! Thanks, Marie!!
xoxox
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Laughing out loud at the image of a bcsm disruptive flash mob 🙂 world! be verrry afraid!
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Thanks so much, Marie, for the stellar line-up once again.
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Jan, you know we miss your voice in the blogosphere so much, but thank you for still being part of the community when and where you can – we love you xxxx
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Thank you so much Marie for including me in the weekly roundup. I am honored to be included with so many other great bloggers. I really loved Nancy’s post about grief and losses, AnneMarie’s wrap up and The Sarcastic Boob’s new normal. I am so glad you introduced me to Jenn who talked about friends and cancer as well as time to consider the lilies, Victoria in Paris Debbie’s take on poetry, Phillipa’s 5 stickies, Kathi’s take on Valentine’s Day, Elaine’s haikus, The Pink Belly off to NYC, Kim’s ponderings and dreams, and finally the great quote from Regina Holiday. What a wonderful week of blogs. I love your Friday Round Ups!
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Thanks for the mini round up there Susan 🙂
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Aw, Thanks so muh Marie, for including me. Always such a thrill to begin a Friday morning in this kind of company.
Oh, and go figure. After I put up a sign on the blog that says I’m going to be out of commission for a while, I immediately get the urge to start writing. I’m nothing if not unpredictable …
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Marie:
I love the idea of being disruptive! We’ve all got a little (or a lot) of that in us, don’t we? Have a great weekend and thank you again for including me in the Weekly Round-Up.
Survival > Existence,
Debbie
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Some of us more than others Debbie 🙂
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Hi Marie,
Thanks for putting this together, Marie, and thank you for including my post. It’s a special one for me and I really appreciate you saying it “speaks to you at a deep level.” What a lovely compliment.
I always look forward to reading posts I’ve missed and I also love it when I “discover” a new blogger through your round-up. Where would we all be without you?
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I reprised my comment on your post here Nancy, but I thought it bears repeating. It means so much to me that you write about these topics so that we can feel less alone in our vulnerability and grief. Keep up the great work!
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That is an outstanding quotation! Thank you so much. Marie, for including me in your weekly roundup and for all the links to other great blogs. I’ve already spent some time at to consider the lilies and, wow, some really amazing posts there. And now I even more reading to do. What a gift. Thank you.
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Victoria, welcome to our community of bloggers – it is wonderful to have a new voice to share. Looking forward to your following your blog – warm regards, Marie
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Wow – this Round Up is so packed with much more than a week’s reading, and lots of new blogs to follow. Thank you for such a wonderful review and thank you for including my bizarre sticky post 🙂
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I loved your sticky post – so creative and so much better than boring old to-do lists 🙂
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Thanks, dear one. It’s been a rough couple of weeks. xoxo, Kathi
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