A very personal reflection on the passing of Maeve Binchy
I don’t have ugly ducklings turning into swans in my stories. I have ugly ducklings turning into confident ducks.” ~ Maeve Binchy
I was deeply saddened to hear last night of the passing of the beloved Irish author, Maeve Binchy. Although, I had long since grown out of her books, I still remember the thrill and excitement of reading her first novel, Light A Penny Candle, when I was a teenager. Here were characters talking in our Irish idiom, living lives we could identify with. She opened the door to a whole new generation of confident Irish female writers. Later, I found great joy in reading her regular Irish Times columns with her own unique outlook on life. I have such lovely memories of reading these pieces aloud to my mother on a Saturday evening. I remember my Mum’s tears of laughter at one particular piece as Maeve described watching two daughters hilariously patronising their aged, tottering mother on a day out. Mum used to always use Maeve’s phrase “taking mother out for the afternoon”, when I brought her out anywhere. Now I find myself longing to tell Mum of Maeve’s passing and share our memories of what her books meant to our mother-daughter relationship. I adored my mother, and I miss her so much since she died last year, but in truth our relationship was not always so close as it had been towards the last few years of her life. Sharing our love of reading Maeve Binchy was the first beginnings of a new adult relationship for us.
I have another reason to feel a deep affection for Maeve, as her sister Joan was my history teacher in school. Miss Binchy taught history as stories come vividly to life – as you can just imagine Maeve, who was also a history teacher did. She encouraged us to use our imagination in our history homework assignments and this is how my love of writing stories began. The best thing that ever happened to me in my school days was being asked to stay behind class one day and being told that I had a gift for imaginative story telling. Miss Binchy planted the seed of being a writer in my mind that day. I never told that story to anyone, but kept it as my own secret dream, and while I abandoned my dreams of writing for many years, it’s been a joyous thing to discover the light of that dream has been lit again for me, just like Maeve’s penny candle.
What a beautiful tribute to your mom, your teacher and Maeve – this moved me deeply Marie x
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Hi Marie, In honour of Maeve and when you feel vaguely up to it, please write a short story and share it with us here for starters. You mustn’t feel any pressure as you can do it! Best wishes, Deirdre
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Oh Marie, what a lovely personal tribute and a beautiful reflection on the mother-daughter bond – really enjoyed reading this.
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Lovely story about how Miss Binchy nurtured the first seeds of your writing.
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Seems like warmth and nurturing ran in the Binchy family. I was always so struck by what a happy childhood Maeve had when she spoke about it in interviews.
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RIP Maeve. I have been listening to Radio One this morning and all the wonderful memories and tributes to this warm, lovely lady.
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I heard some of this too Catherine – she was such a genuinely warm and kind woman and will be missed by so many
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Feeling very sad at her passing too – thank you for sharing your personal reflection. It was lovley
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Marie, I was also saddened by the passing of this author. I think it’s so cool that her sister taught you history and paid you such a high compliment. And your teacher was right: you do have the gift of storytelling and writing.
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Oh Bethy..thank you for your lovely kind words xxx
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Well Marie, perhaps your mum, as we speak is now sharing with Maeve your memories of what her books meant to your mother-daughter relationship…
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Oh Lauren..that thought did fleetingly cross my mind as I wrote this piece – thank you for putting it into words for me..you have no idea how much that means to me xxxx
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A lovely and personal reflection on a wonderful artist. Her colorful and sensitive books took my daughter through some pretty tough times, as she read her favorites again and again. She that wonderful Irish way with language that is so appealing. How interesting that you had such a personal collection.
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I love the fact that her books was so beloved across the world – it speaks to the universal experience of love, heartbreak, hope and joy that we all share
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Thank you for this wonderful sharing!
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Lovely to have your comment here Kathleen – thank you.
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Nice tribute to Maeve (who I hadn’t known) to your mom, and to mom-daughter relationships. How are you doing, Marie?
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Thanks so much Rachel – I will email you privately later this week x
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Such a lovely piece, I have enjoyed Maeves books and writing and interviews as she was a very entertaining speaker as well. Her sister Joan also taught me, I think she got me interested in my history, because she never got at me, she would simply say- as I went into another world staring out the window – ‘Are you alright there Sheelagh’.
‘Ar dheis De a hanam Uasail’
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Oh Sile..does that mean you are an ex Grover too??
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Yes, the school was only about a couple of years old when I started back in in 1965 I think
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Beautifully written. Thank you for bring us inside such a personal reflection. xo
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Hi Terri – thanks for stopping by xxxx
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I’m so glad you took up writing, Marie. This teacher obviously had a profound influence on you at an impressionable age. Love the tribute. I hope you are feeling better. xx
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Some teachers are truly wonderful and ignite a lifelong love of something special – I feel so lucky to have had that experience with my own Miss Binchy.
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Thanks Marie for this news, I hadn’t realised Maeve had passed over. How wonderful to have her sister influence you, and to share such fond words and memories with your mother. My particular favourite was “The Italian Class”. With thanks for sharing your story, as always, deeply touching. Fondest love, light and courage, Christina xxxxx
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Oh yes, I remember that story too! Thank you for your thoughtful comment Christina..it means a lot to me x
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What a lovely tribute, Marie. I, too, was saddened by the news of Maeve’s death. I read a couple of her books when I introduced her writing to my own mother, so I also have fond memories of her stories.
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I know what a lovely memory that is Julia. Thanks for sharing it with me today x
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It was a revelation to hear how beloved Maeve Binchy was worldwide – that she touched so many hearts in all corners of the globe.
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So true Janet
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Oh, no! I hadn’t heard about her death because I’m on vacation, and now I’m so sad. My mom & I enjoyed her books together, too, and I sure like the idea od Maeve and both of our moms swapping stories right now.
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What a lovely thought Nancy – am savoring that image right now x
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Very touching
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Marie,
This is such a beautiful tribute because it’s so very personal. I love the connections you make here between stories, teaching, mothers and daughters. Isn’t it funny how little details of our life “show up” many years later as we realize they were actually important turning points or memories? I’m very grateful that seed was planted in your mind years ago. Thanks for sharing from you heart, Marie.
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I just finished reading Maeve’s last book, A Week in Winter. While I enjoyed her storytelling, I’m so sad that there will be no more books from her. Thanks for reposting.
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I think that was a book that was published posthumously Nancy – there may still be some more books to come if that is the case. It is amazing to think of you reading these Irish stories so far away 🙂
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