Weekly Round-Up
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blogs which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Remember, if you have written or read a post recently which you would like me to share with readers, then please leave a comment below.
Let’s start this week off with a storm – the storm of protest whipped up in the blogosphere and twitterverse and elsewhere by Komen’s decision to withdraw funding from Planned Parenthood. Chemobrain, The Pink Underbelly, Nancy’s Point, Pink Ribbon Blues, CancerFree2B, Jackie Fox, and Uneasy Pink have all come out in force to voice their strong feelings.
Nancy Hick’s latest guest post has generated a lot of compassionate responses and continuing with the theme of grieving the death of a loved one, Melanie Greenberg, who lost her own mother last week has chosen some quotes to comfort us in this difficult process. My favorite is one she shares from Charles Dickens, one of my most loved classic authors:
And can it be that in a world so full and busy the loss of one creature makes a void so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of eternity can fill it up!
Last week I wrote of my insomnia, which sadly hasn’t improved since then, so I really identify with Chemobabe this week, writing about her own fatigue which she describes as “more like a light being dimmed from the inside.”
I’ve heard cancer described as the gift that keeps on giving and while one of those “gifts” is fatigue, another is a sense of uncertainty in the future – a theme we find echoed in Bringing Up Goliath this week, as she approaches 3 years post cancer diagnosis:
Sounds like a long time, but is it cause for celebration? Is it significant? Three years without a sign of recurrence. Does it mean anything or should it be five years to carry some weight?
A very interesting discussion on Beth’s Calling the Shots blog this week on not judging a book by its cover.
Another great #BCSM Twitter chat this week on the topic of cancer apps and it’s a theme taken up by Jody on Women with Cancer. Meanwhile, Jan is musing on technology and social media in her latest post this week.
In The Truth About Trying, Debbie has written on a topic very close to my own heart – infertility and ending the (shameful) secrecy of hiding it. “Too often couples experiencing infertility go into hiding” writes Debbie. “The truth about trying is that you are not alone. Whatever you’re struggling with, it’s always a bit easier once you find your tribe, the others who know because they’ve been there too.”
Don’t forget to catch up with Terri on her adventures – she has arrived “in sticky and humid Ho Chi Minh City (Saigon)” and you can read all about it on her blog A Fresh Chapter. And then go to Feisty Blue Gecko’s blog for another fix of adventure (amazing photographs this week Phillipa!)
Finally, Bronnie Ware, writing on Maria Shriver’s blog on the top 5 regrets of the dying gave me pause for thought this week and so I would like to leave you with a quote from her article to end our week:
Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.
Until next week, choose what’s right for YOU!
Marie xxx
Great to see the blogesses out in force on the Komen issue – have read some great analyses of the debacle over the past few days in the blogosphere
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Ironically it has given a boost to Planned Parenthood! 400 k reportedly donated in one day to them!
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Another stimulating round up of blogs this week!
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Am very disappointed with Susan G Komen for allowing politics to influence their decision to withdraw funding from Planned Parenthood. I think this has done their brand image lasting image.
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Well this doesn’t surprise me in the least – any organization which chooses to sue others over their “for the cure” line will stoop to anything!
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This is not the first time Susan G Komen org has been on the receiving end of criticism. We are witnesssing the next round in a very public backlash against this organization
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Nancy’s guest post for you was one of the best things I’ve read all week!
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Aww, thanks, Catherine! It was my pleasure to lend Marie a hand, and the fact that it resonated so deeply makes it even better.
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Ditto to what Catherine said, I was very moved by Nancy’s guest post.
Cancer Warrior
http://www.perksofcancer.com
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Thanks, Flo! Been thinking about you, and I hope your recovery continues smoothly.
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Marie, thank you for including me in the Round-Up; I’m always honored to be included in such fine company! I’m equally impressed with the scope of your picks and thank you for bringing us such important voices every week. Hope you get some sleep! xo
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Marie,
As always, loving your roundup. I identify with you and Lani about sleep issues. Have struggled with them for years.
XOXOXO,
Brenda
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Marie:
Thank you for including my post about ending the shame of infertility. I’m not just a cancer survivor – I’m also an infertility/miscarriage survivor. Whatever you are struggling with, I really believe support and sharing are vital to healing. That’s why I feel it is so important to tell “the truth about trying.”
Thank you again for including my work this week with such an impressive group of bloggers. The writing in reaction to Komen’s decision to defund Planned Parenthood has been phenomenal.
Survival > Existence,
Debbie
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I am indeed most grateful to you Debbie for shedding light on the difficult topic of infertility. I find that I have no problem talking to anyone about my cancer experience, but find it is more difficult to be open about my fertility struggles – it is a liberating for me to find others that will write and discuss it more openly – gives me courage to do the same.
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Marie, what a week it’s been. I thought for sure your roundup would be all about the Komen debacle, yet you’ve gone out of your way once again to include blogs of all topics, including mine. Thank you so much. I love catching up with everyone here. You’ve opened my eyes to many new bloggers. I’ve always loved Fridays and now even more so. Thanks again.
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Oh Stacey, thank you so very much – your warm and supportive comments just made my weekend xxx
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Marie, thank you for including my posting in your round-up! I am grateful to be in the great company of such awesome writers.
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I really loved your post this week Beth – you write so movingly and your writing really resonates on a deep level with your readers. Keep up the great work!
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Wow, Marie! You’ve summed up this week’s blogosphere and twitterverse amazingly well. It’s a virtual treasure trove of reading. Especially with Komen’s startling news this week. My prayers and thoughts go with you that you will be able to sleep again, and stay asleep. Thanks for including my post in your edge-of-the-seat picks for the round-up this week. XOXO
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Edge of the seat picks 🙂 I love that! Thanks for your wonderful support always x
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I am sorry that you are having insomnia, Marie. I liked (or at least related to) Chemobrain’s comment that the fatigue was “more like a light being dimmed from the inside.”
I have not had chemo, but I’ve had CFS/ME for 22 years and saying that I am fatigued is like saying the ocean is water.
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It’s a real challenge Lois to deal with fatigue no matter what the cause – thanks for taking the time to comment – it is always so good to hear from you.
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Thanks Marie, I always look forward to your Friday favorites, especially when I haven’t been able to keep up in bloggersville.
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So wonderful to see you here again Kim x
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Marie, thank you for including me in your weekly round up! I am very flattered. This whole Komen thing has (and has had, prior to the PP cut) me so hopping mad. Anyway, I wish I were not so busy at work and could write more right now and READ more right now. I am hoping to catch up soon. Thank you for the inclusion, and thank you for providing me with my must read, reading list for blogs this week!
And, I LOVE how you ended your post: “Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.”
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Great to hear from you and looking forward to another week of blogging with the blogesses 🙂
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I am back . . . I hit post too soon.
Meant also say:
xoxoxoxoxoxox
Lisa
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Great round-up! Here is a link to a post I wrote, if you are interested in reading. I received an amazing amount of support and very glad to see so many are fed up with Komen!
http://dinoiafamily.typepad.com/the_dinoia_family/2012/02/i-never-thought-id-blog.html
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