Weekly Round Up
Time for the weekly round-up of blogs. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Just click on the highlighted links to read the posts. Don’t forget if you have written a post which you would like readers to see, just leave a comment below.
I can’t believe another Friday has rolled around again so quickly. Time to take a look at how everyone’s week has been.
“This week has made me wonder about courage, decisions, and forgetting” writes Catherine in Bumpy Boobs.
Renn is recovering at home from her bilateral mastectomy.
Practical advice on the dreaded hot flashes from 1 Up On Cancer.
It’s great to see Jan back blogging again and this time she is pondering why her recent weight loss has made people so uncomfortable.
And a big welcome back to Bringing Up Goliath too with her post-vacation thoughts.
A must read from A Fresh Chapter for anyone who has ever wanted to pursue their dreams but finds fear holds them back. If you have been inspired by Terri’s story, as many of us have, PLEASE vote for her to win a $5k Business Start Up Package to help her get her not-for-profit off the ground.
I always love reading Lauren’s blog, not least because she shares my fascination with words – remember how we all loved her “klunkerland” post? Lauren’s latest post is all about hunkering and battening down and it’s another great read.
Have you been invited via Facebook to take part in this year’s breast cancer awareness raising meme? If you are frustrated to see this silliness raise its head again, then Philippa’s latest post is right on the button this week, as she respectfully points out the utter uselessness of this so-called campaign, which this year seems particularly insensitive to those of us affected by post-chemo fertility issues. Sarah has also written about this and makes it clear that breast cancer cannot be reduced to a silly game in this way, and as we have come to expect from Kathi, her response has been intelligent and informative and leaves us in no doubt of how we can truly raise awareness of cancer (hint: it doesn’t involve revealing bra colours!).
Another blogger voicing her frustration is Laurie of not just about cancer who succinctly points out why she won’t be supporting a breast cancer organization that she quite rightly feels doesn’t speak to or for her and her metastatic cancer.
Scott Pratt must be someone very special indeed, as Brenda has invited him to be her first ever guest blogger. Scott, in Brenda’s words, is one of those “breast cancer husbands who are great caregivers, men who’ve stood by their wives through every step of their breast cancer. ” Another one of these men is Ronnie Hughes, partner of Being Sarah, who is also writing about how breast cancer affects his life as well as Sarah’s.
Beth’s latest post on cancer narratives really struck a chord with me this week as I am endlessly fascinated by this subject and Katie is continuing her own what’s wrong with positive thinking narrative in Uneasy Pink.
Nancy is celebrating one whole year of blogging and reflecting on where her journey has taken her since she pushed that “publish” button on her first blog post.
And finally, gorgeous, funny, feisty, beloved Rachel, who is living with the reality of metastatic cancer, has been writing this week about the latest cruel twist in her narrative. I don’t have enough words to tell you how much Rachel means to so many of us – she is a true voice in an ocean of platitudes. Her voice, is the voice many don’t want to hear:
They want to hear that I’m feeling better. That I’m coping with the loss of the hand. That treatments will work for me. That people with metastatic breast cancer can “do well” for a very long time. That I’m feeling more positive about things. That I can get through whatever this disease throws at me. That I’m continuing to fight. That I won’t ever give up. That I will remain hopeful, no matter what (but Rachel wants) to tell the truth and surprise, surprise life isn’t all fluffy pink unicorns dancing on rainbows, no matter how much I wish it were.
This week spare a thought for Rachel and those like her whose truth is one we cannot ignore in all the hoopla of the upcoming pinktober.
Rachel, we love you xxx
thanks marie for including me, I love being able to click through the best blogs on the weekend with how you line them up for us, good stuff everyone!
lauren
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And as you know, I love reading your wonderful posts Lauren – keep up the great work!
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Marie, you are the BEST! Thanks so much for organizing such noteworthy blogs and for keeping us all tuned in to our BC community’s thoughts, fears, hopes, and foibles.
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arrrghh..kicking myself here..I accidentally left out your latest post – the intriguingly names Sausage Casings!
http://pinkunderbelly.wordpress.com/2011/09/08/sausage-casing/
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Marie thanks so much for your lovely comments to my post, Planet Unicorn (http://cancerculturenow.blogspot.com/2011/09/planet-unicorn.html). I’m coming back up for air very slowly, and the blogosphere has been such a lifeline in helping me get through these latest challenges. The response to my post has been overwhelming and so genuinely heartfelt and thank you for including it here today.
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How could I not Rachel xxxxx
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Rachel,
So glad I found your post through Marie’s weekly round up. I can’t imagine how you’re feeling, but I know I would be PISSED if people kept wanting me to make them feel better with sunshine and lollipop talk. Thank you for being honest and vulnerable. Sometimes what we need is to wallow. I know it’s a bit out of context, but when I was a kid, I had this Care Bears record and my favourite song was a little ditty by Grumpy Bear. (Don’t ask me why I remember this). But, he sang about how “it’s ok to feel grumpy if that’s the way you feel today, as long as you’re not hurting anybody, keep on feeling that way” 😉 I’m not going to lie, sometimes when life gets me down, I channel a little grumpy bear in my head and then I tell my Mom that I’m entitled to wallow every now and then (but that my friend, is another story 😉
Big hugs from Vancouver,
Terri
xo
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Damn – just realized my winks look a bit like the unicorns and rainbows from the cartoon. Ah well…hope this week is a bit better for you!
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And as you know, I love reading your wonderful posts Lauren – keep up the great work!
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Marie – thanks as ever for the mention, especially of my beloved Ronnie. And thanks for your weekly round up. Best, Sarah
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It was a very moving post Sarah – you have a true gem in Ronnie!
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Thank you, Marie, for including Nancy’s Point in your round-up. Your comment on my post was such a nice reminder to me of your incredible support one year ago. You were there to help when I really had no idea what I was getting in to. That’s one of the things you do best, Marie, you offer your support, ecouragemnet and friendship to others without wanting or expecting anything back. I’ve learned so much this past year from you and countless other bloggers and I’m very grateful.
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What a lovely thing for you to say Nancy – I am very touched by your words and believe me, I get more from watching everyone grow and develop than I give out in return. Here’s to watching Nancy’s Point grow over the coming year!
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Thank you for the mention Marie.. and your comment. I hope the person who has created this game this time takes on board the comments that people have left on various blogs and FB. They need to understand that the BC world has a influence and voice on what they see as appropriate especially when it creates upset.
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Next time I am approached on FB to take part in this silly game, I shall just email back your post – that should make them think!
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And thank you from me – what can I say? I am humbled to be part of such an amazing group of blogesses and thankful more than you can ever know for your support. Thank you for introducing me to new ideas, and new friends x
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Thanks so much! I feel very honoured to be included among these great bloggers!
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Your post was right on the money for so many Laurie!
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Marie, thank you for including me in your “Friday Round-Up” again. I am so honored! And a big thanks for girding us against the upcoming “Pinktober” onslaught. And last but not least, a *ginormous* cyber hug for Rachel.
-Renn
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I love that phrase about girding us against the coming Pinktober 🙂 Luckily there are plenty in the blogosphere poised to do just that! Hope your healing from surgery continues to go well x
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Thank you, Marie, for including my posting in your roundup. Your comments are always so supportive. I count myself blessed to have so many wonderful bloggers to look up to. This online support community is great.
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It truly is an emotional lifeline Beth
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Thank you so very much, Marie, for including me. I agree with Beth in counting myself blessed to be a part of this wonderful blogging community. So many have supported me during my recent cancer scare and personal problems. It’s so great to be back blogging again. I missed it so much, and have missed reading others’ posts.
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And I am looking forward to reading your updates Jan x
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I can’t believe Jody’s bog didn’t make the cut. Her blog one more letter moved so many, touched them with the shear beauty in the way she said goodbye and thAnk you to her sister in law
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I hadn’t see it Annemieke – so thanks for pointing it out to us.
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You’re very welcome, its really worth reading
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Thanks for including me in this week’s round up – when I get into one of my ‘moods’ like this week offered, it’s always reassuring to come here and find so many great stories. I particularly enjoyed Brenda’s guest post this week. Great of him to be so candid . . . gave a crack of insight into what my own husband must be feeling.
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My “mood” can change in a matter of hours Catherine, so I know what that feels like! That’s another reason that journaling or blogging like this is so beneficial – we can look back on what we’ve written, see patterns and know that our mood will change for the better again.
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Thank you Marie. I know this is A LOT of work. Have a lovely weekend.
Katie
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I love when it’s all done Katie and I can read back on it and see a pattern to our writing during the week, and ponder again the themes we’ve all been thinking about.
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Marie,
Thank you for including BRENDA’S BLOG in your weekly roundup. This week, you were really including Scott Pratt since he wrote that blog, not me. And you’re so right about Sarah’s husband, Ronnie. He is one of the good guys.
Blessings to all of our breast cancer families.
XOXOXO,
Brenda
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Marie,
Thanks so much for including me in the round up. I just finished reading all of the posts and what an amazing group! Thanks for bringing us together every week.
Big hugs,
Terri
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It is great to bring awareness to breast cancer regardless of the way it is brought to people’s attention. Whether it is from participating in a walk, updating your facebook status, or by wearing a breast cancer ribbon . Any effort made to help bring awareness and help find a cure for this disease is a help in many ways.
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