Weekly Round Up: The Let’s Talk About Sex Edition
Time for this week’s round-up of the best of the blog posts which I’ve read over the past week. These are the posts that have moved me, taught me something, inspired me, and which I’ve wanted to share with you. Don’t forget if you have written a post which you would like readers to see, just leave a comment below.
Let’s talk about sex..what Catherine once called “the pink elephant in the room” is under discussion in the blogosphere this week. Anne Marie’s Share Those Moments project continues to gather pace and Catherine shares some of her personal experience. Elizabeth reminds us that “here’s a lot more to sex than the act itself” and shares some guidelines for creating trust and intimacy – the bedrock of a good marriage and a good sex life. Check out Beverly Mc Kee’s comprehensive post on intimacy after breast cancer and you will find excellent resources at M.D. Anderson’s Dr Leslie Schover’s new blog dedicated to sexual health and cancer.
How we feel about our bodies is intimately tied up with sex and perhaps our first step in reclaiming sexuality in our lives after cancer, is to start to learn to love and accept our bodies again. Debbie shares a poem she wrote on making peace with her post-cancer body, which makes a good starting point.
Sex after cancer is an issue that is true for all age groups, but the issue of fertility is one that often causes added complications for younger women. In a two-part post, Rachel has some good advice on fertility preservation before cancer treatment begins and links to some financing ideas for the expensive procedures this entails.
Financing is another pink elephant in the room, Scorchy wrote about this topic recently, and Jan recounts how “both the oncologists with whom I have interacted did not discuss my finances. The one who delivered the unwanted diagnosis told me if he had the resources, he would choose to drive the 430 miles round trip to get cutting-edge treatment at a leading hospital. He did not ask me if my insurance would cover that hospital or if I had resources to travel that far and that frequently. But he did give me the option of getting standard-of-care treatment at a local hospital.”
Elsewhere in the blogosphere..
Do you understand the differences between palliative care and hospice care? Nancy guides you to a better understanding.
Our thoughts still with Yvonne as she navigates widowhood.
Noboobsaboutit shares the experience of Vincent Moltisanti with a post-treatment side effect that nearly cost him his life and encourages those of us who have undergone a breast cancer treatment, known to cause heart damage, to have checkups that include seeing a heart doctor on a regular basis.
Check out Dr Ann Becker Schutte’s blog summary of the latest MedX hangout on self-care.
Thoughts on blogging and cancer on the cancerfree2b blog.
Terri is off her next big adventure to Africa – please join and support her in whatever way you feel drawn to do.
Great post by Lisa on what being an advocate means to her.
A sobering and insightful post by Eileen on illness in the workplace.
Hair and the lack thereof is the topic of Katy Did Cancer’s blog, while Diane shares a picture of her post chemo hair and asks will I always look like this?
Unseasonable weather and a house update from The Pink Underbelly.
Audrey is celebrating Robbie Burns birthday, Scotland’s national poet.
And finally this week… some good news for chocolate lovers on the Medivizor blog.
Until next week,
Yours with love
Marie xxx
Marie, thanks for the mention in the round-up, sort of gave up on trying to make your round-up list, who knew all I had to do was post a picture of my ungodly salt and pepper hair. Nonetheless, super happy to be a part of your widely recognized weekly list of breast cancer blogs. ~D
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Oh Diane, I am so sorry you feel I have neglected your blog in the round-up lately. It takes a lot of time each week to put this together, and I am not as organized as I should be – I know I miss out on some great blogs unintentionally, and it is the reason I ask each week at the start that if I have missed yours, please do include a link in the comments. You are free also to send me an email or a tweet @JBBC to let me know when you have new content, so please do let me know.
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Marie,
No! Please don’t be sorry. I suck at writing. I just realized at some point, I needed to write what I felt, not what others wanted to read. So I thought it was funny, I post some silly picture and you picked this one up, nothing more. And of course I know I’m not known for my looks 🙂 ~D
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you don’t suck at writing! Not at all. I tend to concentrate on themes in the blogosphere so that may be another reason why i miss out on some bloggers. It is always great to find someone who is not afraid to write just what they want. Keep on being fearless!
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Thanks Marie, again, I’m always elated to be listed on your roundup, deserving or not, it’s an honor to be listed with so many exceptional bloggers.
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Leave it to you, Marie, to discuss a topic that so many of us find difficult and awkward to address–and yo do so with your usual poise and elegance. But I am not finished yet. Off discover what I can find in the blog for chocolate lovers!
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Wow, this one is packed full! Thanks for including Nancy’s Point, Marie. I appreciate it.
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What a great roundup, Marie, and highlight an important topic. Thanks for including my post, even if it’s the antithesis of sexy.
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Thank you so much for this wonderfully rich round-up. We never run out of topics, do we? I appreciate your including my blog in your write-up. XOX
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Thanks, Marie, for or another quick but descript tour of the blogosphere focused on what you know your followers like:) And of course thanks for finding my last post worthy of being included in this rich list.
Best,
Rachel
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Thanks for this taboo-busting round-up, Marie. And thank you for including my blog post as well. I hope AnneMarie’s project goes far.
What I love about blogging and reading others blogs, is seeing the ideas get batted around and grow. While the internet allows for trolls, it also allows for these deeply personal issues to be discussed more easily. (The Keller situation may have threatened that, but not for long, I think) Because we share, people who need to share as well will notice. That impact can just build and ripple. I love it. ~Catherine
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Marie – I’m just coming off my technology free day and it was wonderful to catch up with your weekly round up. Thank you for including a mention of my upcoming trip to Africa. I can’t believe that a week from now I will be volunteering in Rabat Morocco. Thank you for continuing to build community especially around a topic like this pink elephant!! Sending love and light. ~Terri
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Like Terri I am also coming off some technology free time and it’s so great to catch up with this weekly round up. This is such an important topic and I love the way you tied everything together! Thanks Marie!
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Marie:
Thank you so much for including my poem in this week’s round up. I was a bit hesitant to share it (I’m no poet, that’s for sure.) But, I’ve been very pleasantly surprised at how it has resonated with other women who have had to come to terms with the physical damage of breast cancer. Once again, it’s a wonderful experience to share with this community.
Debbie
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