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Archive for November, 2011

My beloved mother passed away this morning. Death Notice of Brighid (Brídge) Ennis On the Death of the Beloved Though we need to weep your loss, You dwell in that safe place in our hearts, Where no storm or might or pain can reach you. We look towards each other no longer From the old [...]

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This is the hand that first held mine.  This is the  hand that I now hold onto tightly as my mother lies dying. Holding her hand, I try to convey the depth of my love and gratitude to her for a lifetime of mothering. Her hand is warm, her heart beats strongly, but her breathing [...]

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I couldn’t let today pass without wishing a Happy Thanksgiving to all of you are celebrating this day, and to thank you again for your support and friendship  during this difficult time in my life. I have been overwhelmed by your kindness and compassion and am deeply grateful for how you continue to walk this [...]

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Hope

Have you ever experienced such intense sadness you couldn’t imagine ever feeling hopeful about ANYTHING again? Maybe, like me, you once stood in the corner, gulping your champagne, at a New Year’s Eve party you wished you had skipped. As you watched your friends laugh at a shared joke, you held the corner of a [...]

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In the midst of life…

In the midst of life, we are in death, and nowhere is that more true than in hospice. My mother was moved to hospice care yesterday and while it is wonderful that she is now in a place that can look after her as she needs in her final days, the reality of the situation [...]

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Philippa, aka Feisty Blue Gecko, entitled her guest post for me “Blown Away” and that certainly describes my reaction when I read her wonderful tribute to online friendships.  Blown Away One thing about cancer. It makes you think and reflect on things you take for granted. Like our health, mobility, relationships and particularly mortality. I am fascinated [...]

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Thanks to Jan Hasak for standing in the gap today with her inspirational contribution to Motivation Monday.  As a patient-advocate for the Lymphedema Advocacy Group, I grabbed the rare opportunity to go to Washington, DC on Nov. 2-4, 2011 to lobby for a bill that would help older Americans with lymphedema get better insurance coverage. [...]

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Thanks to Rachel Pappas of 1 Up On Cancer for standing in the gap today with her delightful memories of her daughter growing up.  The memories stories seem to be well appreciated here on Marie’s site, so I have some to share about my daughter, now 22 years old. She’s my only  child, not by [...]

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“Sorrow makes us all children again – destroys all differences of intellect.  The wisest know nothing.”  ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson Nothing exists anymore for me outside of my mother’s hospital bed. The horizons of my world have shrunk to this small space and a longing to be with her all the time. It is so [...]

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Standing in the gap today is Nancy Hicks of The Pink Underbelly blog, who has chosen to write a post for me all about pie, complete with mouth-watering pics. Every Sunday morning we woke to the gorgeous aroma of my mother’s freshly baked traditional Irish brown bread, scones, and apple pie. We’d lie there in [...]

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